I've found that the only bad part about using the internet to help me plan my wedding is that occasionally I come across a wedding that kicks so much ass that I want it to be my wedding. (exhibit A) So I have gotten comfortable with the idea of stealing and also pushing myself to add creativity and elements of surprise to my own wedding. I'd be interested to see what others in Offbeat Groom community have seen that makes their hearts simultaneously sink and soar. Feel free to post here.
You gotta remember always that this is YOUR wedding, nobody else's. This is the one day in your lives that you get to have things your way. Think of it as a blow-out party that you both get to throw. Don't let ANYBODY else tell the either of you wha…
[I hope that Black and Burgundy beach wedding is'nt going to be in warm weather. Ya might fry a bit.]
I have about 6 groomsmen, 2 ushers, a ring bearer and a Rockabilly officiant. I think it's a safe bet that the reverend will already have a decent…